The Case Of The Employee That Doesn't Fit
So, what should you do if you find yourself in this situation? Here are a few suggestions:
- First of all, accept yourself for the wonderful and gifted professional you are! This is really important. Do you really want to just hold down a job for the money in a workplace where you are disrespected every day and you become smaller and smaller? I don't think so. Do not trade money, power or position for a decaying soul.
- Try to talk about this up-line with your manager and the manager of your manager. I find that if you can keep educating your manager as to your value add in the program, it helps him or her keep things in perspective.
- Plan to leave the organization if management cannot hear or adapt to your reality. It is not a healthy place for you to be.
- Purpose to value others who are different from you in the organization. In other words, don't be like the person who is disrespecting you because you are not delivering what he or she wants. Value all the different gifts and abilities of those around you. That means that if you are a sales, product or creative type, you will have to work harder at valuing those management, finance and HR people. It takes so many different types of people to make an organization work. Good leaders understand this, and that's why they lead successful and thriving organizations. Bad leaders don't, and that is why you must get away from them.
Richard Perry is the founding partner at The Veritus Group. This article originally appeared in the Passionate Giving blog.
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